Skip to main content
coup de main - noun
kü-də-ˈmaⁿ
Definition of coup de main : an attack that achieves complete surprise.

Must-listen: Bleachers' new song 'Dirty Wedding Dress'.

"Now only my people can see me, only my people come in, everybody outside talking like they know, but no, they don’t know," declares Jack Antonoff in the new Bleachers single, 'Dirty Wedding Dress' - a love letter to the people that he feels truly understand him.

Via an e-mail newsletter, Antonoff shared today that:

"here's the story. i got married in the town i spent every summer in since i was born. was the best day of my life. that simple. still spend most of my time down here at the jersey shore. as i say in the song "it's nice to feel special, it's nice to have a think, it's nice to get a break from that cynical beat." you come down here and people are like, "you do music?? my nephew does too! have you seen the last waltz!? that's a good one." the city is nice but it's also important to get away from too many people who have the inside baseball context of you. so we got married here and outside the wedding got swarmed with herbs. not bleachers people, not even real fans of anyone who was at the wedding, just run of the mill weekender dipshits coming to stare at people. people who truly care about the work i make or anyone i make the work with are the best people. they're interested and respectful. they wanna share stories and have a laugh. i know them when i see them. so these dipshits swarm the outside of the wedding ... and here's the crazy part- we barely noticed. that's the thing about closing doors. what happens on the other side doesn't really matter if the people you let in are the right ones. i felt stunned by how it didn't affect us at all. dipshit palooza shouting outside, cameras in hand, flying their drones around while me and my people had the most free night of our lives inside. i knew i would write about it because it gave me a broader faith in the concept of who gets in. the people at my wedding, my true audience, my people out there in general who i see and who see me, that's it.

it's easy with us because the barrier of entry isn't simple. bleachers and my work has always been a very long conversation and i have zero fear of the audience becoming corrupted with size because you won't come to that show unless you know. you just wont, there's too much to understand for a weekender to have fun. i felt that when we ended the last tour at msg. a wild milestone to sell that place out and an even wilder one to feel like i could relate to everyone in that room. the sidewalk campers in front and the traffic cursed in the back - all my people. opposite of those outside the wedding.

so. when we say bleachers is for anyone not everyone, that's it. you're not gonna stay if you're looking for dipshit palooza. the band has made it this far by making the records that only we can make and pushing ourselves to the brink to make every show the last night on earth. that doesn't change, it strengthens. when we're met with bad actors, cynics, or anyone or thing trying to change our course, we close the door. just like my wedding night, just like every day when i walk into the studio, just like every night on bleachers forever. whoopsiedaisie!

here's dirty wedding dress and for god sakes ONLY MY PEOPLE CAN SEE ME and ONLY MY PEOPLE COME IN and EVERYBODY OUTSIDE TALKIN LIKE THEY KNOW BUT NO THEY DONT KNOW :: but you know also here's THE tour:

starting this june, proud to present, with honor, with the last night on earth guaranteed every night: BLEACHERS FOREVER"

Listen to the new song below:

COUP DE MAIN’S TRUE JAMS PLAYLIST

Open in new window
Open in new window